Find Your Kink in KC


Dungeons/Venues

Name

Fet Contact

Link- fetlife.com/

Location

Notes

The Black Dog

Mistress Elliot

https://fetlife.com/groups/132926

KC Metro

Hosts, educational events, demos, play parties & discussion groups. Open to 21 & up

Consent Critical

xXFreyXx

ConsentCritical

https://fetlife.com/groups/228653

Independence, MO

The Red Door

ChieftanRedDoor

https://fetlife.com/groups/38646

KC Metro

Kink & queer friendly swinger's club

The PEAK

THE_PEAK

https://fetlife.com/users/12314655

Topeka, KS

Outdoor Venue in Topeka area

Mistress Deborah's Dungeon

https://fetlife.com/groups/86906?sp=1

KC Metro

Private dungeon hosting parties and other events

IX

IXKansasCity

https://fetlife.com/groups/105060

KC Metro

Large venue with a variaty of offerings. open to 18 & up

The Space

_The_Space_

https://fetlife.com/groups/18915

Wichita, KS

Affiliated with WichitaNext,

Ravn's Nest

TheRavnsNest

CadillacDaddyO

https://fetlife.com/groups/188792

Wichita, KS

Hosts munches, demos, and occasional play parties for the Wichita KS area.


Munches

Name

Fet Contact

Link- fetlife.com/

Location

Notes

AHS Social

Kansas City, MO

https://fetlife.com/groups/5153

3rd Friday monthly

AHS is the original D/s lifestyle resource and support group in Kansas City, hosting monthly meetings, socials and special events since the early 1990s. We are an educational and social outlet for those interested in BDSM and fetish activities and lifestyles.

Why Not Wednesday

Rhythm and Booze

Kansas City, MO

Every Wednesday

CKC Venue vetting available

FLR (Female Led Relationships)

Paul and Jack's Tavern

North Kansas CIty, MO

FLR-KC

https://fetlife.com/groups/158332

2nd and 4th Thursdays

We support alternative life choices. We celebrate the Feminine in relationships. We discuss best practices within many styles of "kink" relationships. We are expanding our efforts because sexuality and gender is not as simple.

With us, you are a human first, not a gender.

May Contact Mistress-Rachael for more information

Kaw Valley Kink

Johnny's Tavern

Lawrence, KS

https://fetlife.com/groups/21533

1st Friday monthly

This group aims to serve as the central touch-point for anything KINK in or around Lawrence, KS.

BKKC (Black Kink KC)

Varies

https://fetlife.com/groups/184731

See discussion group

This is a group for love and encouragement of BIPOC Kinksters in the Greater Kansas City area. We aim to build a more inclusive kink experience for BIPOC kinksters, BDSM practitioners, Leather P/people, and A/allies.

Kansas City Bi and Lesbian Women

Varies

https://fetlife.com/groups/71143/about

Announced monthly in group

Social group for Kansas City women seeking Kansas City women (bi or lesbian)

LSK (Lees Summit Kink)

Munches may take place on discord server, Johnny's Tavern, or in Lea McKeighan park

Lees Summit, MO

https://fetlife.com/groups/98819

Last Monday monthly

We're just a bunch of kinky people, in the Lee's Summit area, who like to have small munches and discuss kink-related topics.

T.A.S.K. (Topeka Area Social Kinksters)

Topeka, KS

https://fetlife.com/groups/70399

Varies- check Fetlife group

Topeka Area Social Kinksters (otherwise known as T.A.S.K) a group for anyone that identifies with or wants to explore non traditional sexuality

Taco Tuesday (IX)

TBD- Varies

https://fetlife.com/groups/105060

Every Tuesday

IX Venue vetting available

Wichita Next

Wichita, KS

WichitaNext

https://fetlife.com/groups/94670

Announced monthly in group

Wichita Next is committed to providing a safe, private environment for exploration, education and enjoyment between consenting adults in the BDSM and Kinky community within Wichita, Kansas.


Parties & Discussion Groups

Name

Fet Contact

Link- fetlife.com/

Location

Notes

Kansas City Littles Support Group

slave_gingypooh

Somewhere

See Fetlife profile

Mommy's and daddy's are welcome to attend but this isn't just a munch. We will meet for real support related issues somewhere in the northland.

The Pioneers

https://fetlife.com/groups/19970?sp=1

See Fetlife profile

Leather/Levi club located in Kansas City, Missouri.

Gear Night

Missy B's

Leather night event

Headbanger's

Dr_No_No

IX

Raw Dog Gay Fucking - Men Only

Solving Poly

SlantSix

7pm every First Monday of the Month @ The Black Dog (Contact SlantSix or M Elliot

Discussion & Support group for all levels of experience with polyamory, Open to all relationship styles of Consentual Non Monogomy (CNM). M/s, D/s or Vanilla, Solos, Couples, Triads and large polycules invited. Group works to address specific questions, dillemas or challenges facing CNM relationships, as well as educate on various CNM subjects. Bring your personal questions and experiences to share..

AHS Kansas City

AHS_OC_BOD

https://fetlife.com/groups/5153

Monthly

AHS is the original D/s lifestyle resource and support group in Kansas City, hosting monthly meetings, socials and special events since the early 1990s. We are an educational and social outlet for those interested in BDSM and fetish activities and lifestyles.

BKKC (Black Kink KC)

bkkc816913

https://fetlife.com/groups/184731

See discussion group

This is a group for love and encouragement of BIPOC Kinksters in the Greater Kansas City area. We will share events and meet-n-greets within the kink community.We aim to build a more inclusive kink experience for BIPOC kinksters, BDSM practitioners, Leather P/people, and A/allies.

CKC (Consent Kansas City)

Consent_KC

https://fetlife.com/groups/71405

See discussion group

Consent Kansas City is dedicated to keeping kinky fun in the local lifestyle community. We average at least an event per week, and all of them are designed to allow folks to really get to know the incredibly diverse, generous, educated, knowledgeable, witty, perverted, caring, responsible funsters who make up the Fellowship of Consentians.

The Hell Fire Club

Mayhem

https://fetlife.com/groups/158332

Group to provide an environment that people can openly discuss and practice protocols.

FLR-KC (Female Led Relationships)

FLR-KC

https://fetlife.com/groups/158332

See discussion group

Welcome to FLR-KC. We support alternative life choices. We celebrate the Feminine in relationships. We discuss best practices within many styles of "kink" relationships. We are expanding our efforts because sexuality and gender is not as simple.

Fountain City TNG

FountainCityTNG

https://fetlife.com/groups/220574

See discussion group

A group designed specifically for young adults 18-35 interested in exploring all realms of BDSM. Both an educational and social group.

The Hell Fire Club

Mayhem

https://fetlife.com/groups/74427

Meets second Friday at The Black Dog

Attends Gear Night at Missie B's after

All topics related to powerr exchange relationships, including M/s & protocol and rituals in all dynamic styles.

Kaw Valley Kink

MistressElliot

https://fetlife.com/groups/21533/about

See discussion group

This group aims to serve as the central touch-point for anything KINK in or around Lawrence, KS.

KC Pony Herd

KC_Pony_Herd

See Fetlife profile

The KC Pony Herd is a Pony Play group based right here in Kansas City. This is a group for anyone who likes, loves, indulges in, or is curious about Pony Play, including Pony Handlers and pony carting.

Kinky Bitches KC

KinkyBitchesKC

See Fetlife profile

We are women who love the world of Kink and BDSM. We are femme-identifying but not limited to CIS-gendered folks. We are passionate about learning safe play styles, fostering authentic friendships and dynamics, guiding each other through lifestyle experiences, and creating a community of inclusion while promoting education and learning.

MAsT-Kansas City

floggingsforher

boundforpleasure

https://fetlife.com/groups/18357

Meets last Thursday monthly @ The Black Dog

Chapter of MAsT International. Meets to talk about topics related to Master/slave power exchange relationships

Middles KC

MiddlesKC

https://fetlife.com/groups/217207

This group is for middles in the local community. A safe space for us to talk and get to know each other and plan some fun activities.

Midnight Howl

EndlessBeast

https://fetlife.com/groups/67351

This group is for puppies and Handlers who are interested in puppy play.

Mo-Kan Invasives

MoKanInvasives

https://fetlife.com/groups/96227

See discussion group

This group is dedicated to learning and practicing safe techniques for needles, branding, cautery, sharps, and other forms of skin-invasive play. Open to anyone in the Mo-Kan area, we strive to create a community that provides resources, education, learning opportunities, and open discussion for those who wish to explore invasive techniques.

MWEC (MidWestBDSM Education Collective)

MWEC

https://fetlife.com/groups/211955

See discussion group

The Midwest BDSM Education Collective is a burgeoning organization dedicated to providing Kansas City and the Midwest with quality coursework in bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism taught only by qualified instructors and experienced players. Experience matters and we want to share it with you.

The Rat Pack

The_Rat_Pack

https://fetlife.com/groups/174643

See discussion group

The Rat Pack is a group of like-minded individuals who enjoy hosting and coordinating parties and events based upon The Rat Pack style! We prefer high-class events and love to dress the part.

Rope Study Group of KC

Edward_McMeanie

https://fetlife.com/groups/67351

See discussion group

RSG is a fun group of like minded people that enjoy rope work.

Scouts of Submission

SOS_KC

https://fetlife.com/groups/182601

See discussion group

Providing an outlet for s-types to develop themselves while giving back to the community.

Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence (City of Fountains Sisters)

https://www.cityoffountainssopi.com

See website

The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence® are a leading-edge Order of queer and trans nuns. We believe all people have a right to express their unique joy and beauty.

Polyamory in Kansas City

TheKinkyTinkerer

https://fetlife.com/groups/36353?sp=10

A discussion group for people involved in, or interested in Polyamory, Polyfidelity, Polymonogamy in the Greater Kansas City Area.

Wichita Next

WichitaNext

https://fetlife.com/groups/94670

See discussion group

Wichita Next is committed to providing a safe, private environment for exploration, education and enjoyment between consenting adults in the BDSM and Kinky community within Wichita, Kansas.


Places to Find Event Listings

Name

Fet Contact

Link- fetlife.com/

Location

Notes

Kansas City Events

Masters1kitty

https://fetlife.com/groups/69210?sp=7

The "go to" group for what is happening Kansas City Kink Scene!

Kansas City Kink Personals

Whorible

https://fetlife.com/groups/39230/about

This group is for those seeking to connect with fellow kinksters looking to do some kinky things!

Kinky Kansas City

SylvereApLeanan

https://fetlife.com/groups/2430

This group is a centralized point for kinksters in the Kansas City metro and surrounding areas. Members will find information about events hosted by the various kink groups in Kansas City as well as nearby groups in Kansas, Missouri and other parts of the Midwest.